shawnfromnh69

Those internet friends he talks about and sexuality is just simple. The sex is a replacement for affection, BUT those people do not understand what I do and that is a close friends hug is better than sex to calm the soul and make you feel something besides a vagina. Sex is so overrated because the ones rating it are lost and do not realize what they actually need. Real close families know this. I saw a big dude in Walmart the other day and I stopped smiled and said to him after glancing up at her "That's the reason you get up in the morning" He said "You know it, everything I do is for her". You could see it in his eyes his total contentment with that child so close to him. He'd probably be some drunken badass if that child wasn't in his life I imagine.

Maroonsaint

If you let people get close to you they’ll stab you in the back everytime

shawnfromnh69

If you trust the wrong people. You have to connect with people that you've known for decades or years at least. Not the chick you met last weekend. You also don't even consider sex with them or let them push you into it and just enjoy simple affection and if they aren't doing it then they are not trustworthy or trying to do that or don't have a clue and are just hugging without feelings involved. It's like a mother hugging her child purity and feelings but with a friend and it is amazing the contentedness that you realize when you get to the right point and it may take many many hugs but It's be worth it. My hugger was my cousin "NOt sexual ever" and she showed me how family's were supposed to show affection. She also is the most caring person I know and she gets taken advantage of a bit but not so much that her life is affected badly because she is not stupid by any stretch of the imagination.

Maroonsaint

Everyone who’s stabbed me in the back has been people Iv been friends with for more than a decade. The only girl I ever gave a shit about. If you don’t let them close you can’t be touched

shawnfromnh69

It matters what close is. DOn't let anyone in on a secret that can screw you because you probably won't be friends for life. Don't let the pussy manipulate you and a hug is a hug unless she's hugging your dick then it's sex. Don't allow them to sexualize or shame or use you just give a hug a good one not a weird one.